Monday 9 January 2012

But what about the Nice Guys(tm) Menz?

Oh the fucking sighetry and, then, again, a sigh. SIGH.

If someone shows more than a passing interest in you and you tell them, very clearly, that you're not interested but you're more than happy to be their friend - that does not give you the right to relentlessly DEMAND more of them than they were prepared to give you. You weren't lead on, you invented the entire relationship in your head and then got pissy when the same emotion wasn't conveyed back to you. If you're that much of a grown-up I'm sure you could keep the damn thing in your pants if you thought you couldn't emotionally stand some "Let's have some sex without it being a relationship" but you couldn't and you whined and WAAAAAAAAAAAAAH. Another case of women not being listened to because ZOMG WHAT ABOUT THE MEN'Z FEELINGS. Fuck's sake.

I expect I shall add more to this when I am less annoyed.



This post is related to 500 Days Of Summer, its writer, some of its viewers and people who don't understand about listening. Fuck the patriarchy.

Also, read this.